I wish I could ask my mom when I was born, what day of the week, what time. A Christmas baby. That's what they used to call me since I was born 2 days after Christmas. But that's all I know. I was adopted at 3 years old along with a Navajo Indian brother a few months older than me, and a Korean sister a couple years younger.
My auntie raised four kids in her lifetime that weren't her own. Her body just wouldn't make baby's even though every fiber of her being ached with the longing of being a mother. But she raised us like we were her own. She knew she was taking on quite a lot. She was doing it for the right reasons, she had so much love to give, and Lord only knows, we had so much love to be needing.
"You aren't my mama! I want my real mom!!" I still remember how red hot my face felt when I hollered those words. I didn't care. I missed my real mama and in my four year old mind, tantrums had become a way of getting what I...
I just celebrated my twenty year wedding anniversary. Can you believe it? Neither can I for how fast it's gone by. I married when I was nineteen, much to the chagrin of my dear mom. But when you know you've found a keeper, what do you do? You hold on for the ride and you don't look down lest vertigo kicks in. That's what I did while keeping my gaze steady towards the stars.
I took dating very seriously. Probably too serious, looking back. But I knew I didn't want to waste anybody's time (or money) when I already knew I wasn't looking for anything long term just yet. I believed in being honest and upfront with the guys I went out with. Besides, commitment was risky business.
My childhood was fraught with love gone awry. One of my earliest memories I have is with my step dad's arm around the babysitter in the front seat while taking her home. I must have been barely three at the time, but I remember thinking how my mom (this...
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